Consider if you are dating someone you will have to carry along in life instead of a real partner you can depend upon.
What appears fun and sexy now could eventually become deadweight that you have to carry—along with your children, household duties, and finances.
Without doubt, Chinese girls dating and marrying foreign men is an irreversible phenomenon which started many, many years ago but, given the huge increases in the volume of such matches, is now right at the forefront of most societies.
The idea of a boy who never grows up is promoted and even romanticized in our culture as sexy or just “the way men are.” Sadly, women often pay the price for such a prize because there are consequences to keeping this type of “man” in check. This may partly explain why men, by and large, benefit more from marriage than do women.
They’ll play children’s computer games for hours on end; play with a “Hello Kitty” doll or figurine or just generally act in a childish way.
Quite why I am not sure, although it might be attention seeking—but this is something most foreign men seem to be able to live with if all of the other traits of their Chinese girl meet their ideals!
Don’t drink too much alcohol, try not to smoke and certainly don’t take drugs Picking the right type of Chinese girl, like any romantic attachment, is driven by our emotions, and is hardly the same as picking, say, a colour to paint the bathroom walls—is it? We base our choices on our inner feelings, and our perceptions of the physical beauty or attractiveness of our potential mate.