He is by far the handsomest guy I’ve ever been with – he gets a lot of girls.
After the first time, I figured I would never hear from him again, but he wanted to hook up again the next weekend!
It’s the cost of not choosing something, the benefits left behind on the road not taken, and it’s an important component of any choice you make.
Sometimes the tradeoff is obvious – if you choose to date Brad, you’re giving up the opportunity to date Jonathan, for example.
Many are so subtle they are not registered consciously by the viewer. I believe that if you are having a sexual relationship with someone, it is impossible for you to send the full range of cues that signal interest and availability.
By definition, any attraction you feel or encouragement you provide to another man will be compromised.
I don’t know any more if it’s possible to have something totally casual.